Of Sunbeams and Chirping Birds

Just when you think you know what's going to happen next... Yesterday my husband repented.  Deep, real, remorseful, sob-wracked repentance.  He told me what he's done wrong all these years, how he did it, why he did it and how badly he feels for having done it. And it wasn't just one conversation.  It was...

“I Got This… I Got This… I … I Don’t Got This”

Q: What happens when you ask a narcissist to take responsibility for his actions and remove himself from the situation in which he is causing pain? A: Absolutely nothing. I mean, I don't know why I expected anything different.  A few weeks ago, as I had feared, my husband's narcissistic behavior ramped up again and...